I Have People I Love Who Are Gay – Chimamanda Adichie speaks on Gay Law and Feminism On NPR


This isn’t the last we’ll be hearing from Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie this year.

The ‘Half of a Yellow Sun‘ author has been in the media of late due her stand against the ‘unjust’ gay law and her support of feminism. Its no surprise she is yet again inteviewed on this as well her take on fabulous fashion.

Read excerpts of Chimamanda’s interview with Michel Martin of NPR News below:

On denouncing Nigeria’s new anti-gay laws: “I wrote it because I was angry. I was upset. It was very personal, my reaction to it. And you know, it’s easy to say, “I have people I love who are gay,” which is true, but if I didn’t, I would still have been outraged by it, because I felt it was deeply unjust. And I recognize that I have a voice now in Nigeria, and so I wanted to write it, and I wanted to write it specifically for a Nigerian audience, to say, “let’s actually think about this, let’s talk about this.” And the responses I got, I wasn’t surprised to get … people who said I used to love you but now that I know you support gays, I no longer love you. And when somebody told me this, that this is what her cousin had said, I said, “tell your cousin I don’t want her love, if that’s the condition for her love.”

On being smart and dressing fabulously: “I grew up being told that I had to look in the mirror. You know, my mother made history. She was the first woman to be head of the administrative section of the University of Nigeria, and she was very concerned about her appearance, and she brought all her children up to care about how we looked. And so I came to the U.S. and I realized serious women were not supposed to, and that if you did look as though you cared, it was a reason to be dismissive of you … I think I just really have come to understand that life is way too short to pretend to be what I’m not, and it sounds very New Agey and clichéed but I just really want to be my true self, and this is my true self. I think, for so long, when I would find black shapeless shifts for every event, I was just being false, that was not myself, but I was thinking, “I have to look serious.”

On Beyonce sampling her TED talk “We Should All Be Feminists”: “I think that anything that gets young people talking about feminism is a very good thing. I also think that I have a problem with the idea of feminism as being some sort of exclusive party that someone gets to decide whether you can come, and also the idea that somehow a woman who is comfortable with her sexuality, that there’s something wrong with that. I have a problem with that … Why have we decided that somehow a woman celebrating her sexuality somehow is something bad? Maybe it’s that slightly puritan idea, it’s also the idea that s3x is something a woman gives a man, and she loses something when she does that, which again for me is nonsense. I want us to raise girls differently where boys and girls start to see sexuality as something that they own, rather than something that a boy takes from a girl.”

Do you agree with her?

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