Believe it or not, that hottie in the corner of the coffee shop that you noticed right away isnâ€™t totally buried in his book.Â He is checking you out! You may not be aware of it, but he is noticing everything about you.
In an online poll, guys admitted that there are a few signs that a girl is worth getting to know a little better. While some of these things that guys notice about a girl may be obvious, others are really subtle! Ready to sneak one by him? If you know what heâ€™s going to zone in on first, you can take a little extra time and TLC on those areas! Hereâ€™s your list of 10 things guys notice first!
1. Your Hair
Usually, when a guy sees a girl, his eyes automatically look at her face. And he thinks about whether or not she is pretty to him. But what if his first glimpse of you is the back of your head? Some guys have said that they can tell if a girl is pretty or not just by looking at the back of her head! Wanna know how? Her hair! A girlâ€™s hair is a dead-giveaway on how she takes care of herself and presents herself. Make sure your hair is shiny, luscious and bouncy. Even if you donâ€™t have time to curl it everyday, at least make sure itâ€™s clean and combed out. Your hair should look like it smells heavenly and feels like silk!
2. Your Posture
A girl who carries her head high and stands straight and tall sends a message out into the crowd. It says, â€œHey, Iâ€™m confident, comfortable and sexy. Iâ€™m the girl you want to get to know!â€ Thatâ€™s one of the things guys notice first about a girl! Just think how someone with slumpy, slouchy shoulders looks. Would YOU want to get to know someone who walked around like they had the weight of the world on their shoulders?
3. Your Friends
Surprisingly, the company a girl keeps has a big impact on first impressions that she makes. You know the statement â€œBirds of a feather flock togetherâ€? Well, itâ€™s true! And in most cases, if a girl has loud, whiny, sassy or rude friends, a guy may assume the same thing about her, even if she attracted him at the beginning. But if a girl seem to have a tight knit group of friends who all seem to be having a great time together, it sends a signal that she is genuine and caring. Thatâ€™s one of the things guys notice first and love right away!
4. Your Pout
Kissing has been proven to be one of the worldâ€™s greatest stress relievers and research shows that most humans spend about 20,160 minutes per lifetime smooching! Wowza! So itâ€™s no wonder that one of the things guys notice first is your lips. Are they soft and smooth? Red or pink? Shiny and kissable? You can bet that heâ€™s going to be wondering that until he finds out, so why not make it sweet suspense? Your lips should be kiss-ready every time you walk out your front door!
5. What You Carry Around
Believe it or not, your purse and other stuff you take with you reveal a lot about your personality! A girl who carries a huge purse full of makeup and other stuff like that is probably pretty high maintenance. A girl who has interesting books or puzzles on hand has a cool personality and loves to learn. A girl with a bright pink phone case is probably bubbly and sweet to be around! A girl with NO purse at all is laid-back, chill and spur of the moment. The girl who carries toothpaste, travel size deodorant and lint rollers is always prepared for anything. And yes, guys do notice these things, ladies!
6. Your Dance Moves
A girl who can dance with the best of them proves a few things: She is confident in her skin, she knows how to have a good time, and sheâ€™s not afraid to bust a few moves! Plus, that makes a girl impossible not to notice! So next time you are kickinâ€™ it out on the dance floor, remember that you are being noticed and try to have a good time! Donâ€™t be fake and over-the-top, but do have some genuine fun. Guys definitely notice a girl who is havinâ€™ herself a ball!
7. Your Smile
Oh hereâ€™s an obvious one! But no matter how obvious or cliche it may be, guys DO notice a girl who smiles. And most of them can tell if itâ€™s real or fake. Thereâ€™s a few who can be fooled-I always hate it when a super nice guy is stuck with a girl who he THINKS is a princess but we all know her game and itâ€™s not nice. But a guy who is attuned and ready can spot a real smile 5 miles out. So get you some teeth whitener and breath strips and get ready to shine, even on days you donâ€™t feel like it. Itâ€™s one of the things guys notice!
8. Your Heels
Not that you have to wear high heels every single day, but a girl in a pair of skyscrapers is one thing that guys notice first. High heels symbolize sexiness, strength and boldness. So donâ€™t be afraid to pop those babies on every now and then! Mix it up between heels and flats, but make sure you wear heels at least a couple times a week. You never know when Mr. Right will bump into you! And I always say itâ€™s best to be prepared!
9. How You Strut
A sultry strut can reveal a lot to a guy. Remember in â€œThe Princess Diariesâ€ when Princess Mia got walking lessons? Itâ€™s true that the way a person walks has a big influence on how they are perceived. Walk with purpose, style, and grace. Walk like a lady! You donâ€™t need to swagger, or walk like youâ€™re on the fashion runway, but do remember that you are a lady and a man-like stomp will not be cute or sexy to a guy!
10. Your Attitude
Probably the most important thing that guys notice first about a girl is her attitude. A girl can be as beautiful as a sun goddess and as sexy as all get-out, but if she has a bad or ugly attitude, a guy will drop her faster than you can say hello. No man wants to be tied down to a mean witch! So make sure that attitude is in ship-shape, and I guarantee you a guy will notice. I realize we all have bad days, just try not to let the bad days have YOU!
Thereâ€™s a thin line between being sexy and slutty, pretty and overdone, confident and proud, or sweet and fake. And it takes a special girl to be genuine enough to master that line! Now that you have this list of things guys notice first, you will have it down in no time!
Via Shy Magazine