A breakup with the man you truly love is one of the most confusing, frustrating and devastating situation a woman can go through in life.
It seems like no matter what you do or how hard you try he doesnâ€™t want to be with you again. He appears to have completely lost any feelings he once had for you and you think there’s no hoppe of reviving it and getting him back.
Good news is……. there are ways a woman can get her man thirst to for a relationship with her again. Whoop whoop!
It is actually easier than you think. All you have to do is tweak your approach to the situation and understand what men want and what causes them to fall in love.
Block The Heart Break
This is the first step. Nobody wants their partner to disappear leaving them alone particularly should you like your boyfriend over life itself. You need to make use of these feelings that will help you keep a level head and control your emotions. Your first objective would be to let your emotions to stay and avoid saying or doing things that you might regret.
At all cost, please, biko, avoid threats, pleading, crying, begging and harassing your ex. If you’re doing any of these already, just stop it.
He Subconsciously Wants A CHALLENGE
Men love a challenge. Its the glaring truth. This process goes below his awareness into his subconscious mind, that is why most will never admit it. He never wants to â€œwinâ€ completely. He always subconsciously wants some sort of gap.
Why? Itâ€™s basic male psychology that men VALUE that which is harder to achieve. If you ask a man directly if this is true, he may tell you â€œnoâ€.
Many men don’t always respond to a woman who he doesnâ€™t have to do much to achieve. That is his emotional side. If he knows that he has you completely, heâ€™s very likely to immediately lose interest, especially in a breakup situation because heâ€™s already decided he doesnâ€™t want to be with you anymore.
He wants the chase, the mystery, the excitement. When he knows that you want you him and you canâ€™t live without him, there is no challenge or mystery left. Thatâ€™s why itâ€™s important to plant the seed of doubt in his mind. If you begin to become slightly less available to him, you will start noticing a BIG difference in his attitude towards you.
But a word of caution, don’t overdo it else he’ll think you’re completely gone. You have to pull it off in the RIGHT way or you could end up hurting the situation.
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